Here’s what not to do and some ideas of what to do instead: I list these three East Asian countries mainly because they’re the only countries that other people seem to know.
I’ve had people rattle them off at me as if they’re going to win a spectacular prize for guessing right.
You can find out where else they’ve lived; if and where they’ve traveled; what’s their favorite (or least favorite) thing about their hometown, etc. You want to impress someone with your language skills, but not all people who “look” East Asian speak Chinese or who “look” South Asian speak Hindi.My dad was the defeated minority, frequently hiding in a garage “fixing the car”, terrified of all the estrogen raging in the house and knowing that try as hard as he might, he could do no right. Even now, when I am the only girl in the family of four…Throughout the years I have studied the males in their natural habitat, conducted scientific observations and even resorted to Gestapo-style interrogation.Furthermore, while browsing the internet on the subject, I found this recent piece The End of Courtship?In a nutshell, the author argues that traditional dating in America does not exist anymore.