D., we came up with six questions that you can ask yourself as you decide whether to hold tight or let go—plus a few tips for how to make it work if you do take the leap. It may seem like spending a ton of time together is a great sign for your relationship’s viability—after all, that means you really love being around each other, right?
But if you can’t bear to be apart for even just the workday, it doesn’t bode well for being apart for weeks or months at a time.
In this age of endless connection, we are more disconnected than ever and most relationships don’t go very far beyond the surface.
Maybe it’s because we hold ourselves back or maybe it’s because we no longer have the tools to genuinely connect, like face-to-face and via conversation.
A love map is essentially knowing all relevant information about your partner’s life, from small things like the name of their first pet to big things like significant experiences that shaped who they are.
He explains that couples who have detailed love maps of each other’s worlds are much more equipped to cope with stressful events and overcome conflict.
Rather than treating questions as a first date script, weave them seamlessly into conversation, by asking, listening, and following up with new topics and further questions.
Before you know it, you’ll be using questions to inspire a natural exchange.
It was a lot of fun, but also a very profound experience and we ended up learning so much about each other (and about ourselves! To this day we make an effort to spend time asking each other deep, meaningful questions that go beyond ‘how was your day?Just one of these questions can lead to a good 30 minute conversation, full of smiles and giggles, which will instantly get you closer to your crush.1. What would you do if you could be invisible for one whole day? Fun questions can be the perfect ice breakers and conversation-starters and are guaranteed to make you two smile and have a good laugh together. The secret to having a great conversation is to ask open questions (as opposed to yes/no questions) and to answer them yourself after your crush has answered.